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Feb
16

For Sale

In a few short days, a Realtor will be coming to pound a “For Sale” sign into the yard in front of the house where I live. I couldn’t be more relieved.

I’ve been packing for several days. Surprisingly, I’ve packed a lot less than I expected, and I’ve gotten rid of a lot more. My mother was in awe as I tossed things (mostly old arts and crafts materials) into huge contractor-sized garbage bags, with an obvious look of satisfaction on my face.

It was cleansing. The first step to a new beginning.

I have a bit more packing to do, and then the deep-cleaning begins, as well as some paint touch-ups here and there.

Half my life is encapsulated in cardboard at the moment, and I just don’t care. It’s interesting how little you really need in life. I’m beginning to value simplicity a lot more.

… Of course, I should disclose the fact that I packed several plastic totes full of yarn and one full of spinning fiber. (Let me have my one vice, ‘kay?) Honestly, I know I don’t need those things either. But I do enjoy them a lot.

I’m actually not sure where I’m going when the house sells. Doesn’t that sound crazy? But I think that’s half the fun, flying by the seat of my pants…

Feb
10

Thoughts on Blissdom

What to say about  Blissdom? I don’t even know where to start.

For those of you not in-the-know, Blissdom is a blogging/social media conference for women, held here in Nashville, Tennessee. This past weekend marked the conference’s third year, and happened to be my first year attending.

Though the conference spanned three days, I was only able to attend the Saturday sessions, and unfortunately, I don’t think I got as much out of it as I could have due to the stress and craziness going on right now. However, I wasn’t going to let all the negativity I’m dealing with keep me from going in general. I just wasn’t able to be my chipper-perky self quite as much, and as a result failed miserably at networking as much as I had hoped. Just the same, I got to meet some fabulous ladies, all of whom were so welcoming and friendly!

I did get a lot out of the sessions I attended. I focused on the business track for Saturday:

(1) Leveraging Social Media to Build Your Business

Panel, left to right: Amy Turn Sharp (Little Alouette), Caitlin Madden (Mabel’s Labels), Kimba (A Soft Place To Land), Kim Christopherson (You Can Make This), Kris Thurgood (Jesse Kate Designs), and Lisa Leonard (Lisa Leonard Designs).

A few highlights:

  • The 5 B’s: (1) Build the buzz whenever you launch a new product, blog, feature, etc., (2) Be yourself–be real and don’t be afraid to laugh at yourself, (3) Be specific about the action you want your readers to take–join your Facebook fan page, follow you on Twitter, etc., (4) Bring on the bookmarks!–Social bookmarking is vital, and (5) Be appreciative–people don’t have to sign up for your newsletter or give you their information, so if they do, always thank them and if possible offer something in return (e.g. an e-book you’ve written on an area of expertise).
  • Know your audience–survey them to find out which social networking tools they use, and focus on those first.
  • Do your OWN social networking on Twitter and Facebook because it is vital to be authentic and personal.
(2) Evolving into a Professional Blogger – Paths to Success

Panel, left to right: Barbara Jones (One2One Network), Audrey McClelland (Mom Generations), Kim Moldofsky (Hormone-Colored Days), Allison Worthington (Allison Worthington Media), and Nancy Smith (@NancyDSmith).

A few highlights:

  • Earned media– completely your words, your review; always be genuine, don’t lie about a product just to get paid; use constructive criticism
  • Paid media– somewhat restrictive because you must use the words supplied by the advertiser
  • Pitching to get paid media/sponsorship opportunities– be prepared to show the company what their ROI will be, use case studies, maintain relationships because often companies will refer bloggers for other opportunities
(3) Niche Blogging – Experts Talk About Blogging Your Passions and Expertise

Panel, left to right: Audrey McClelland (Mom Generations), Rachel Matthews (A Southern Fairytale), Sommer Poquette (Green and Clean Mom), Jennifer Schmidt (Balancing Beauty and Bedlam), Nester Smith (The Nesting Place), Heather Solos (Home Ec 101).

A few highlights:

  • 7 questions to ask yourself in order to find your niche (via Nester).
  • Bloggers take different paths to find their niche — some are able to define it from the outset (great!) but other times it is something that evolves over time.
  • Use your blog’s subtitle/tagline to clearly define what your blog is about.
  • Become an authority in your niche — but understand the responsibility that comes along with that.

One of the best things about the conference is the underlying hum of energy and inspiration that you’re able to tap into.  It is an amazing feeling to be surrounded by hundreds of brilliant, tech-savvy, talented women. Everyone I encountered was so friendly and more than willing to answer questions and give advice.

For instance, during the morning sessions, I sat at a table with the lovely Beth from In Good Cents. She was more than willing to share with those of us at the table some of her strategies for affiliate marketing on her blog.

Bloggers helping bloggers; women entrepreneurs helping women entrepreneurs: I love it.

I’ll certainly be attending next year, hopefully for the entire conference, and hopefully in a better frame of mind to really experience everything to its fullest. Thanks to everyone who put on this conference and participated in the panels — ya’ll did a fabulous job.

Feb
07

Uncle Larry

Today would have been my Great Uncle Larry’s 73rd birthday.

A great-uncle might sound like an obscure relative, but Uncle Larry was more like an extra grandfather. He never married and never had children of his own, so I guess he treated me like a grandchild.

He always had time for me. I used to call him and tell him it was a holiday: “Mandi Day!” and that we should celebrate. And we’d go out someplace for a day of fun. He took me everywhere — amusement parks, the beach, the zoo, parks and any other place he could dream up.

In the wintertime, he would take me sled-riding. I had a two-person sled and he’d ride down the hill with me. I always made him ride in front so the snow wouldn’t hit me in the face. Then I’d ride in the sled while he pulled me back up the hill. He never minded.

He was the head engineer on the Mississippi Queen and Delta Queen steamboats. He would work a month and be off a month. During the months he worked, he never failed to mail me Care Bear or Strawberry Shortcake greeting cards, just to say “love you and miss you.” He always brought me pictures from the steamboat races on the Mississippi annually — I was always excited when his ship won. He also always brought me Mardi Gras beads, because his ship always docked in New Orleans during the celebrations.

Before I was born, he worked on big grain boats that travelled the great lakes. He also worked on huge ships on the ocean in the far east. He served in the Army infantry during the Korean war. He traveled the world and saw so much.

Uncle Larry passed away five years ago, on February 23, 2005. He had been fighting leukemia. He was finishing up chemotherapy and was getting better. He was in good spirits and always laughed that he had always wanted to shave his head to see what it would look like, but had never been brave enough to do so, so he was excited to see what it looked like when his hair fell out.

It was so unexpected. He seemed so much better. We found him on his couch. He had laid down to take a nap, and just never woke up. It was peaceful. Everyone should be that lucky when their time comes.

Miss you, Uncle Larry — but I’ll never forget you, or the life-lessons you taught me. Rest in peace and I’ll see you on the other side.

Feb
02

Random Tuesday Thoughts

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I’m very excited to share with you all that I am now part of the management team at 20 Something Bloggers (20SB), as part of their Community Team. If you’re not a member of their site yet, I highly recommend joining. Their community is so fun and welcoming and I’ve met so many fun and interesting bloggers through the site!

I’m sure you’ve noticed the whole “celebrity doppelgänger”-meme that is going around on Facebook by now. I thought I’d share mine here, for the heck of it…

Me (with slightly shorter and un-flat ironed hair)
Jennifer Grey (circa “Dirty Dancing” and pre-rhinoplasty).

Lastly… have I mentioned how much I still am loving my iPhone? No? Well let me reiterate: I LOVE IT.

Feb
01

Tennessee to Pennsylvania and Back Again

YES, I did it again. Thursday morning I jumped on a plane to Erie. Thankfully I got out of Nashville right before a big storm and into Erie in between the major snowfall. Talk about luck!

The downside: I spent my whole trip miserable with a sinus infection/tonsillitis, taking giant horse-pills (some kick-butt antibiotics and Mucinex DM). Needless to say, that prevented me from visiting with my grandmother (who has emphysema and can’t risk that kind of illness). I was very disappointed about that.

I did get to visit other friends and family though. Ate at a few of my favorite restaurants.

I gave in and got my iPhone. I can’t believe I didn’t do it sooner.

I love this thing.

I have barely put it down since I got it. Can’t believe I didn’t give in and get one sooner. I haven’t had any problems so far with the service in Erie, Nashville, or on the drive in between. I’ve been busy tweetingFourSquare-ing, and Gowalla-ing from my phone. (‘Cause I’m a geek like that.) If you’re on either/any of those sites, connect with me.

This week my mother is staying with me (actually for a week or two, not sure yet…) to work on cleaning and organizing the house so that we can put it up for sale.

I’m telling myself that it is time to downsize immensely. I really long to have simplicity in my life, but I’m a major failure at that. There’s a huge part of me that wants to just go through my stuff like a whirlwind and throw out about 80-90% of it. One area I’m planning on paring down hugely is my arts and crafts supplies. Any more, I mostly just knit; I haven’t done much sewing, painting, scrapbooking, etc. in a long, long time. I’m thinking I can give away/donate/throw out almost everything from that genre of stuff. I’m also getting rid of my aquarium (my friend Cyndi said she’d take it) and some other stuff like that.

I’m just hoping I can keep that attitude and momentum and not get sucked in my sentimental stuff. I need the Clean House gang to come kick my ass–where the heck is Niecy Nash when you need her!?

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